As a leader we are expected to live up to the standard and we expect our subordinate to do the same. I had one soldier in particular who didn't agree with the battle buddy system. In AIT we have the same standards as basic training, each student is designated as a battle buddy with whom he must always be with. This particular soldier was continually advised on many occasions to have the right battle buddy and to never be alone! On many occasions she finds herself alone and doesn't seem to understand why the battle buddy system is in place. Even though it was a challenge, I remained patient with her and explained why this rule is in place. We have made great strides with this soldier. Just giving her that extra time opened her up to understanding and a willingness to change. If you can contact the soldiers by giving them a few at a time and also really caring where they come from, then you have succeeded in your mission. If you can give a little extra for everything they need as they complete the mission, then you've become an asset